KarMel Scholarship 2007

 

 “To Become a Man”

By Ashley (Noah) Schmidt

 

 

Desciption of Submission: Sestina poem about living with the often sexist expectations of being a woman, but knowing that you were born as a man and not sure what to do.

 

 

 

 

Sometimes I get sick of trying                                            

A woman still isn’t a man

No amount of steel can forge the knives

Strong enough to wretch me from the kitchen.

the hallway holds my tarried heart,

but my hands are still soapy from work.

 

 

This is harder than real work

Because I can’t give up on trying

The drumming of clocks can’t silence my heart.

I know where dignity lies, in the breast of man

I only burn what I find in the kitchen,

My hands too untrained to hold knives.

 

 

He bought me those shiny sharp knives

Brought them home right after work

I can smell the new cologne he’s trying,

When he comes into my kitchen,                                 

Bragging to all near by that he’s the man.

I try to hide my jealous heart.

 

 

Late that night I listen to his heart,

I’m tempted to run and grab those knives,

To see what it is that makes him the man

To finally see how his noble innards work.

I could never imagine it, so there’s no use trying

I rampage into the kitchen.

 

 

What a dark and empty kitchen?

I can’t step in. I haven’t any heart.

This room, still lonely, though not from lack of trying,

Stands apart from the house, as if gutted by a knife,

I know this will never work.

I am no match for a woman, but a poor substitute for a man.

 

 

Have you ever seen a word so small as man?

I’ve never felt so wrong, but in the kitchen,

He tells me a woman should never work.

I want to stop my heart

Before it breaks, or throws itself onto the knives,

Times may be more confusing, but always trying.

 

 

It takes real work to be a man.

I must keep trying to leave the kitchen.

My wicked heart knows where I keep the knives.

 

 

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