KarMel Scholarship 2006

 

Runner Up – Written Category

“Alternative Families and Lifestyles: A Study of Gay-friendly Books for Children”

By Tiffany Davidson - MI

 

 

Desciption of Submission: “A detailed study of gay friendly children’s books, outlining a need for gay role modesl for children and young adults and also the addition of LGBT diversity in children’s books.  This study examines fictional anthologies, non-fictional anthologies, picture books, and young adult novels.“ - Tiffany

 

 

Biography:  Tiffany is a graduate student attending Central Michigan University.  She is majoring in History and Gender Studies.

 

Why Karen and Melody Liked It: This essay focuses on a new gay issue regarding LGBT children’s books.  It was very well written with lot of detail analysis.  It inspired us to think about coming up with our own LGBT children’s book in the future.

 

Did you enjoy reading this essay?  Then feel free to send a message to Tiffany at: david1tj@cmich.edu

 

 

 

            The gay community has been under fire for a long time; with many people claiming the lifestyle is not only unnatural, but also perverse in some cases. The attitude about being gay was such that it caused the American Psychiatric Association to list homosexuality as a mental disorder and to treat it with various methods, such as electroshock therapy and some more deadly methods. During the Cold War in the United States, a Senate committee even went so far as to begin an inquiry to root out homosexuals holding government jobs, claiming that even one “sex pervert in a Government agency tends to have a corrosive influence upon his fellow employees.” (Davidson & Lytle 931) The actions of that committee eventually spread beyond its reach, causing the military to step up its efforts to expel suspected homosexual soldiers and city police across the nation to increase the amount of raids in suspected gay bars and social clubs. (Davidson, et al. 931)

 

The gay community did not just sit by and allow the authorities to push them around however. Various organizations started to form in the 1950s to counter the actions taken against homosexuals. The Mattachine Society (founded in 1951) and the Daughters of Bilitis (founded 1955) were two of the first organizations formed to support gay and lesbian rights within a time that was known for its politics of conformity.  In the 1960s, more radical groups started to form, citing their goals to raise consciousness, establish gay culture in which they felt free, and to have “acceptance as full equals…basic rights and equality as citizens; our human dignity;…[our] right to love whom we wish.”  (Davidson, et al. 1034) All of the problems for the gay community came to a head on June 27, 1969, when the New York City police tried to raid the Stonewall Inn, a Greenwich Village bar.  Instead of allowing the bar to be taken by the police, patrons fought back, throwing stones, broken glass, and even parking meters to show that they would not stand for discrimination anymore. Gradually, the rights for homosexuals across the United States increased and in 1974 homosexuality was removed from the list of American Psychiatric Association list of mental disorders. (Davidson, et al. 1034)

 

Although the rights of the gay community increased from the 1950s to the 1970s, the mid-1980s and the years of Regan started a time of regression and the rise of anti-gay evangelical groups, claiming the AIDS epidemic to be a gay disorder in America and causing the rising public opinion about homosexuality to once again decline. (Davidson & Lytle 1096) Within the last decade, however, the public opinion about homosexuality has once again gone up. With more civil rights organizations forming such as GLSTN and the Human Rights Campaign, homosexual equality has been fought for diligently and started to make its way into the media, through shows such as “Ellen” and “Queer is Folk” and even into radio programs such as “NPR.”

 

Although gay and lesbian adults have fought for their rights and are currently experiencing a rise in public opinion, where does this leave gay and lesbian children and youth?  Fighting cognitive isolation, social stigmas, and emotional situations, many of these children and young adults have no role models to model their lives after.  With no one to look up to and very little information available about people their age, many children and young adults are stuck in the present with very little to look forward to in the future. Being gay is such a stigma that the teen suicide rate is still on the rise in America among teens that would rather kill themselves than tell their parents that they are gay. (Richardson and Seidman 201-202)

 

Now the subject of being gay and same sex parenting falls into the arena of children’s and young adult literature, sparking some conservatives into action.  Some evangelicals such as Pat Robertson and several lesser-known figures, are calling for the banning of these books or the placement of them within the adult section of libraries across the nation.  Books such as King and King and One Dad, Two Dads, Brown Dad, Blue Dads are being pulled from school libraries, public libraries, and are even being put on banned book lists across the web and in communities nationwide. With the need for positive role models in the gay community and the systematic banning of homosexual themed books, where should children and parents look for positive portrayals of homosexuality? (Richardson and Seidman 199)

 

This paper focuses upon the different portrayals of homosexuality in children’s and young adult books, the need for gay role models such as those portrayed in the books, and the redefinition of the idea of family therein.  First, I will examine three picture books, One Dad, Two Dads, Brown Dad, Blue Dads by Johnny Valentine, Best Best Colors/Los Mejores Colores by Eric Hoffman, and King & King by Linda de Haan and Stern Nijland.  Secondly, I will focus upon three young adult novels, Living in Secret by Cristina Salat, No Big Deal by Ellen Jaffe McClain, and From the Notebooks of Melanin Sun by Jacqueline Woodson.  Next, I will talk about one book of realistic fiction, Am I Blue? Coming Out From the Silence edited by Marion Dane Baur.  Lastly, I will talk about one work of non-fiction for children, Outspoken: Role Models From the Lesbian and Gay Community by Michael Thomas Ford.

 

The main focus of this paper is upon how gay and lesbian characters, as well as same sex parents are portrayed positively within recent works for children.  In discussing this topic, language, pictures, stereotypes, and many other elements are discussed.  I hope to prove that although omitted as a topic of diversity in past children’s literature, the topics of same sex families and gay characters have found their way into the spotlight and therefore as yet another element in the pursuit of acceptance and diversity.  In the end, it is the aim of this paper to show that homosexuality has gradually started to become accepted as a legitimate form of living and loving and that this fact has been proven by the existence of books for children and young adults portraying this type of relationship and lifestyle as not only acceptable, but in some cases as commonplace. I also hope that these books will provide a positive way for children and young adults to escape the isolation and social stigmas many feel through just being themselves. I will narrow my focus to books published within the last fifteen years.

 

Picture Books:

In the last fifteen years, more picture books have been published portraying same sex families and gay characters.  Picture books portray all kinds of families, yet are subtly inclusive of the subjects of romance and same sex parenting.  Alyson Wonderland, a branch of Alyson Publications, famous for many gay themed children’s books, published One Dad, Two Dads, Brown Dad, Blue Dads by Johnny Valentine in 1994.  In talking about this book the publisher notes,

 

“Two children--one with blue dads, one from a more traditional family--compare notes in this light hearted, easy-to-read book about parents who are different. In the end, of course, they discover that blue dads aren't really that different from other dads. Except for one thing...” (Alyson Books)

 

 

This book is light, delightful, and almost Seuss-like in its portrayal of Lou, a young child with two blue fathers.  Lou is introduced in a way that would allow any younger child to identify with him.  He is approximately between the ages of four and seven, black, and dressed in a striped shirt and a pair of blue jeans, like most children one would see on the street today. The only thing that really separates him from other children is that his fathers are blue.   Lou notes that despite their color, they are able to do anything that other dads can do such as swimming, cooking, playing piano, and skydiving (even though they blend in with the sky during that activity) saying, “But except for that problem, our life is routine, and they’re just like other dads—black, white, or green.” (Valentine 26)  Throughout the book, a little girl (and narrator) asks questions about how their skin became blue, whether they function like other fathers, and if they love Lou. Other skin colors are introduced in the beginning of the book and the title. Later in the book, Jean shows up and talks a little bit about having a father who is green.  She does not discuss this however, because she says “I’d love to have you take a look, but we’ve run out of room, now in this little book.” (Valentine 29)

 

Homosexuality is discussed in a more indirect way in this book.  The dads just live together and there is no explanation as to where the mother is.  The inclusion of the fathers being “blue” even refers to the Russian slang term for homosexual, that means blue, a fact of which many parents and children probably would not know.  It can also refer to the idea that royalty in Europe were the only ones thought to have been “afflicted” with the condition of homosexuality.  The fathers are humanized through Lou’s description of the activities they can do and the love Lou shows for them in his descriptions to the little girl. Through more indirect means, this book is able to convey the normality of having two fathers.

 

Another picture book that portrays homosexuality in a positive light is Best Best Colors/Los Mejores Colores by Eric Hoffman. According to the publisher, RedLeaf Press,

“When his Mamma Jean and Mamma Laura ask him about his favorite color, Nate doesn't know what to say. When his friends say he has to choose one best friend, it just doesn't seem possible. Then his mammas bring home a rainbow flag to hang on the wall, and Nate realizes that he likes the colors—and his friends—best when they're all together. Includes activity and teaching ideas for caregivers. Bilingual English/Spanish.” (RedLeaf Press)

 

 

Today, many books teach the idea of diversity to children with several different methods.  This book seems to encompass them all and send them back out in one small book.  Nate is approximately between the ages of three and six, at the stage of everything being his favorite thing.  Nate and his Mamma Laura are both black, while Mamma Jean is white and his little sister appears to be Asian.  Nate’s friends Kayla, Miguel and Mandy are of varying cultural heritage and physical ability (one of his friends is in a wheelchair).  With the diverse characterization in this book, most readers should be able to identify with at least one character in the book.  The book is also written in both Spanish and English, allowing children that speak only Spanish to also comprehend the book and therefore opening up the lessons of this book to more than one population of children. 

 

Although the title does not hint at it, the issue of homosexuality is more blatant in this book than in Valentine’s book, especially in the end.  Once again there is no accounting for the father of Nate, thereby normalizing the same sex parenting in the book. The mothers are portrayed much like the fathers were in Valentine’s book with the exception being they are actually given speaking parts and their relationship can be seen more directly through their family activities such as picnicking (Hoffman 9-10) and through the last illustration of Mamma Jean with her arm over Mamma Laura’s shoulder in the gay pride parade. (Hoffman 25-26) It can also be seen in the culmination of Nate’s “best best colors” at the end resulting in the gay pride flag, which he is told he can hold in the parade with his mothers. (Hoffman 25-26)

 

Lastly, King & King by Linda de Haan and Stern Nijland is an example of a picture book with positive portrayals of homosexuality.  Unlike the other books, however, this book focuses upon a gay character rather than gay parents. Tricycle Press, a division of Ten Speed Press, says,

 

“Once there lived a lovelorn prince whose mother decreed that he must marry by the end of the summer. So began the search to find the prince’s perfect match and lo and behold... his name was Lee.

You are cordially invited to join the merriest, most unexpected wedding of the year.” (Tricycle Press)

 

 

This book portrays its characters in a fairy tale style, focusing upon the royal courts and the elusive search for the perfect princess.  Although the characters are older (or seemingly so) they are still easily identified with, in that children do not often wish to do what they are told and sometimes parents can seem a little bit pushy.  The queen, portrayed as an elderly or near elderly woman, tells her son that he must get married by the end of the summer and that she had been married twice already by the time she was his age. (de Haan and Nijland 8) The prince is portrayed as a young adult, most likely in his late teens to early twenties.  He is presented with princesses of various different colors and backgrounds, eventually settling upon Prince Lee, much to the surprise of everyone involved. 

 

The subject of homosexuality is not immediately discussed when first opening this book (though the title might give it away). At the beginning, the prince is just searching for a princess with his mother pushing him along.  The prince sees many different princesses from many different races and parts of the world, but finds none to his liking. Later on, the prince settles upon Prince Lee, when his heart begins to stir and they both establish that it is love at first sight. (de Haan and Nijland 19-20)  In the end, the princes get married in a wedding thrown by the Royal Kitty and friends. (de Haan and Nijland back cover) The celebration and joy of the wedding and the Queen finally “has some time to herself”, (de Haan and Nijland 27) makes the portrayal of a same sex union positive and seemingly acceptable in the public eye of the book as “they live happily ever after”. (de Haan and Nijland 28) On the last page, the two princes kiss, though a heart covers their mouths so as to not show the kiss completely. (de Haan and Nijland 29)

 

All three of these picture books are positive about their portrayal of homosexuality.  Whether blatantly stated and unapologetically shown such as in Best Best Colors/Los Mejores Colores, subtly hinted such as in One Dad, Two Dads, Brown Dad, Blue Dads, or later noted such as in King & King, each book opens up the subject of homosexuality to a much younger crowd, showing the relationship and the state of being gay as acceptable and commonplace.

 

Young Adult Novels

             A much more common type of book to portray homosexual relationships and coming out stories is that of the young adult novel. Homosexuality in many young adult novels is a subject of debate, acceptance, and hardship, accentuating the difficulties of being gay, as well as the eventual acceptance of homosexuality or the steps towards acceptance. In the end, each of these books gives a positive portrayal of homosexuality, though a different view of it than the picture books do.

 

Bantam Skylark Books first published Living in Secret by Cristina Salat in 1994 and it has been re-released several more times in the past few years.  According to Publisher’s Weekly as noted on Amazon.Com,

 

“Amelia was excited about escaping from her father's house to go live with her mother and her mom's lesbian lover in San Francisco. However, the 12-year-old soon discovers that having an assumed name, lying to her new friends about her past and negotiating the maze of complications arising from her mom's lifestyle isn't as much fun as she thought it would be. But when her father finally hunts her down and forces her to return home, Amelia is able to draw strength from her experiences to make a difficult choice. This first novel tackles some hefty social issues including racism, homosexuality, lawbreaking, personal integrity and justice. Ages 9-12.” (Amazon.Com)

 

 

This book illustrates to young adults between the ages of nine and twelve (though younger audiences would most likely have no trouble reading it) that sometimes difficult decisions need to be made and that just because an idea seems true in the mainstream does not mean that it is.

 

            The portrayal of characters in this book is descriptive. Amelia is a twelve-year-old girl who has been separated from her mother and her mother’s partner Janey through a divorce.  Despite her protests, her father is awarded sole custody of her, because the judge believes her mother is unfit as a parent and represents a bad example of living due to her lifestyle. (Salat 9-10)  Amelia says in the book that she wants to live with her mother and Janey, because her father and his girlfriend, Rosa, do not take care of her properly, constantly being away and never talking to her. (Salat 10)  At the beginning of the book, Amelia runs away with her mom and Janey to San Francisco and they all change their names and buy a house where no references are needed.  Amelia’s mom is portrayed as a mom, plainly and simply.  She is an artist and will do anything (including quitting her job, lying, and breaking the law) in order to be with her daughter.  Janey is developed as a housepainter and a skilled worker, who loves Amelia and will also go out of her way to live with her adopted daughter.  In all, the characters are realistic and can be easily identified with by the reader.

 

            Parenting is also a subject within this book. Amelia’s father and his girlfriend are bad parents despite the fact that they are the heterosexual parents in the book and theoretically should represent the idea parents.  They do not pay attention to Amelia, do not talk to her, and often leave her to her own means to run the household and the streets as she sees fit.  They do not listen to her opinion when she tells them that she does not like the color of her comforter and the design of her room and do not take her wants and needs into consideration when she says she wishes to live with her mother and Janey. Despite the secrets they must keep and the hardships they must face, mom and Janey come across as good parents.  In the beginning of this book, Janey and Amelia were the only two in California, because Amelia’s mom had to maintain that she had nothing to do with Amelia’s disappearance.  While in California, Janey does not allow Amelia to have the run of the house, so to speak.  Amelia is given the choice of what rooms she wants, what furniture she wants, what color she wants her rooms to be, and how she would like to color her hair to look different among other things, however Janey makes her take responsibility for her things. (Salat 16) For example, Amelia is expected to paint her own rooms and help with the other rooms.  At first, Amelia volunteers to paint both of her rooms alone, thinking it would be fun. (Salat 25) Later, she realizes how tired her arms are and tries to get out of her responsibilities.  Janey holds her to her task, despite Amelia’s objections.  In another place she tries to avoid painting the bathroom, saying “I like it the way it was.” (Salat 28) Despite her objections to this, she still must paint her bathroom and is told by Janey to “Stop being lazy.” (Salat 28) She is also told throughout the book to let her mom and Janey know where she is going, what she is doing, and how long she will be gone, not just because of their secrecy within the family, but also because they care about her.  If she breaks these rules and worries her mom and/or Janey, she will be punished. In a couple places throughout the book, Amelia is spoken to about her behavior and given consequences. One thing she did that without permission was go to the library at the beginning of the book.

 

“I don’t know what to say to that, so I change the subject. ‘I went to the library.’

‘You went where?’

‘To the library, and I met this girl! She’s twelve and I lied and said I was twelve too.’

Janey looked alarmed. ‘You left the front stoop without telling me?’

‘I just went to the library. And I told the girl my name was Julie.’

‘What else did you tell her?’

‘Nothing.’ Why did I bring this up?

‘This isn’t a game, Amelia. If someone finds out—‘

‘I just said hello and good-bye, okay?’ Janey must think I’m really stupid…that I’d tell the first person I meet Hi, I’m Amelia Monet. My mother kidnapped me. ‘I’m going upstairs,’ I say, taking my pictures back.”  (Salat 33)

 

 

Although she did not like the scolding she received, Janey acted like a parent should, taking care for her child and letting her know that her behavior was not right. This is similar to the groundings and punishments that many people receive as children for misbehaving.  Through their ability to properly parent their daughter, Amelia’s mom and Janey are convincing as parents.

 

            In the end, Amelia’s father and a private detective catch up with her and take her back to Greenport.  They threaten to press charges if Amelia’s mother and Janey come back for her. (Salat 159) While this may seem a sad ending to a story about a girl and her lesbian parents, Amelia does not go quietly.  She found every excuse she could to go back to her mothers and acts thoroughly upset about being back in Greenport.  Eventually, she asked for an allowance (Salat 167) that she used to rent a post office box. (Salat 169)  Now, she could write to her old friends and family out in California.  Amelia is given three choices of what she can do about her unhappiness at her father’s house.  She can be stolen away and risk her mother and Janey going to prison, fight in court for custody and go the legal way with the media involved, or she could stay at her father’s until she is eighteen, leaving behind the life she made in San Francisco. (Salat 176) Amelia hints at the end of the book that she will try to go back to her mothers in a legal way and finally live with no secrets.  She and her mothers intend to reunite even if they must get the media involved. (Salat 172-183) In the end, tries to give the reader courage to do what is right, no matter what the consequences.

 

            No Big Deal by Ellen Jaffe McClain also focuses upon doing what is right under bad circumstances.  Published in 1994, this book is about a junior high age girl, Janice, struggling with the prejudice against her suspected homosexual teacher, Mr. Padovano at West River Junior High School.  Through vandalization of his car, threatening of his job, and a coalition of homophobic parents, Janice and her friends are able to stand up for Mr. Padovano and remind the citizens and parents in her town that teaching is not based on a person’s lifestyle, but rather on their skill at educating students.

 

            Though homosexuality is contested as a legitimate lifestyle from the beginning of this book, the main characters are well developed.  Janice can be seen as a brainy, but accepting girl who can see beyond someone’s lifestyle to who he/she is as a person, first noticing that Holly looks like one of the drill team girls, but not relying on exterior traits for her final judgment.  She finds out that Holly’s mother dressed her that way the first day, so that she would make a good first impression at her new school. (McClain 14-15) Although Kevin maintains a homophobic attitude throughout much of the book, his situation is explained in the end with the revealing of his AIDS afflicted gay brother and his jealousy for Mr. Padovano’s health. (McClain 180)  Holly is portrayed as brainy and the daughter of a very liberal set of parents, rubbing off on her in her open view of homosexuality.  Although the parents are not developed, so that more focus can be brought to the children, one can see the battle between the conservative and the more liberal parents clearly at the meeting about Mr. Padovano.

 

            Homosexuality is portrayed well in this book, though Mr. Padovano must endure many acts of discrimination.  Mr. Padovano is everyone’s favorite teacher and coach, leading up the Academic All-Stars team at West River Junior High.  He is able to inspire his students to do well and no one has any complaints about him before the rumors start about his sexuality. His partner, though not a large character in the book, is portrayed as a nice man who lives with Mr. Padovano and travels with him when he escapes to Italy for a while. Even though people are discriminating against Mr. Padovano through vandalizing his car, calling him names, not speaking to him, and publishing nasty articles in the newspaper, Janice, her younger sister, and Holly are able to stand up against the majority and show the parents and school that just because a teacher is homosexual does not mean that he is a pervert or a bad teacher.  This lesson is overly positive for children who read this book, showing once again that it is important to stand up for what is right and that gay men and lesbian women are acceptable in American society.

 

            From the Notebooks of Melanin Sun by Jacqueline Woodson takes the subject of homosexuality as an acceptable lifestyle from a different perspective.  Melanin Sun, the main character of this book, has lived alone with his mother for most of his life, never really getting to know his father.  He had no objections to hearing the word “faggot” or using it in his daily speech, though he had been brought up to be more accepting.  One day, his mother decides to reveal her relationship with a woman, but not just any woman, a white woman.  Through Melanin’s prejudice against white people, his insecurity about his mother’s new love, and his own fear of rejection, Melanin hints at the end that he may soon accept that homosexuality and lesbianism are legitimate forms of love. (Woodson)

 

            The characters in this book are mainly Melanin, his mom named Encanta, and her girlfriend/partner Kristen, though other characters are introduced throughout.  Melanin is portrayed as a self-conscious teen, who is worried about more about his own image when his mother reveals she is a lesbian than he is worried about her image.  He is negative about white people, because he feels that white people have given his mother a hard time throughout their lives together. (Woodson 31) Encanta is a mother who is trying to become accepted by her son, study law, and be happily in love with a woman, Kristen.  She and her son have a tough relationship in that they do not talk much shortly after she reveals her love for Kristen.  Lastly, Kristen is a white upper-class lawyer who goes to the gym with Encanta.  They fall in love, defying racial and gender barriers, and she wishes to know Melanin better.

 

            Even though the situation never really resolves at the end between Melanin, Encanta, and Kristen, there are signs of acceptance in the near future.  Melanin gives the two of them a chance by going out with them to the beach and talking to Kristen about how her family stopped speaking to her because she is a lesbian.  Realizing that Kristen lost her only real family because of her lifestyle, Melanin realizes that his Mamma is the only person he has and it would be bad to lose her over the person she loves.  In the end, although Melanin is not sure about the future and whether it matters what people think, he seems ready to accept his mother and welcome Kristen into his life. (Woodson 140-141)

 

            In each of these books, the lifestyle of homosexuality has been addressed along side of all of the hardships that come with being gay.  Gay bashing, vandalism, parental rights, and acceptance are all discussed along side of lessons teaching children and young adults to see through the exterior layer and the societal expectations to the real people who are gay.  In Living in Secret, Amelia’s mom and Janey sacrifice everything just to be with their daughter and Amelia gives up her life and identity in Greenport just to be with them. In No Big Deal, Janice, her sister, and Holly defy a large group of homophobic parents to support Mr. Padovano as a teacher instead of a gay man. Lastly, in From the Notebooks of Melanin Sun, Melanin learns to look beyond racial barriers and heterosexual relationships to accept his mother and Kristen’s love for each other. Above all these books teach acceptance of homosexuality and doing what is right against all odds.

 

Fictional Anthologies:

            Fictional books combining the stories and interviews of various authors and societal figures have become very popular in the last decade.  These books encompass various subjects from feminism to religion, from history to sociology.  Books like these also exist with gay themes and a target audience of children and young adults.  Through these books, children and young adults get a glimpse into familiar situations and perhaps answer any questions that they may have had themselves.

 

            An example of an anthology of fiction in this area is Am I Blue? Coming Out From the Silence. This book combines the talents of sixteen well-known authors of gay children’s literature such as Nancy Garden, Jacqueline Woodson, Cristina Salat, and M. E. Kerr, illustrating many different situations that may arise in the life of a gay, lesbian, or bisexual child or young adult.  Throughout this book, each of the authors tackles a different issue from acceptance within a family to discrimination from that same family, fantasy to parents’ night, war to running away, and so on.  In this book, young adults see into a world that is full of love, hate, acceptance, discrimination, understanding, and ignorance. 

 

Characters in this book vary depending on the story.  The most positive character and most humorous within this book is Melvin, the fairy godfather.  Melvin is trying to help his charge understand what it means to be gay in “Am I Blue?” by Bruce Coville.  Through revealing his own death, discussing the feelings a gay man has, and some of the societal stereotypes that one may experience in being gay, Melvin is able to provide a funny, yet realistic view of some of the positives and negatives of being gay. (Bauer 3-16)  Other characters such as Winnie and Tommy show what it is like to be in a relationship with someone and realize that one is gay, (31-44) while others such as those from “In the Tunnels” show what it is like to be in love in the midst of war and sexual discrimination. (Bauer 249-258)

 

Overall, this book serves much of the same purpose as the young adult novels.  It fleshes out some of the hardships that gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender young adults face, noting the discrimination, debate, and sometimes the acceptance of someone being gay.  Homosexuality is portrayed in a positive way, despite many hardships that the various characters must endure.  This book serves as an example that gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender youth are commonplace enough to need literature for their tastes. It also serves to show that homosexual young adults come from all walks of life and deal with many of the same problems when revealing their sexualities or living within the shadows. Not all stories end in this manner however, some are left to the courage of the individuals to move on in the world, furthering the reality that some people do suffer for the lifestyles that they lead and courage is needed to fight against what is considered to be the social norm.

 

Non-Fictional Books:

            Non-fiction books can also be helpful in guiding homosexual children and young adults through their lives.  Through interviews and positive portrayals of role models, these children and youth, many of whom feel alone in the world, are told that they are not in fact alone and that there are other people like them, even people in the limelight such as Rosie O’Donnell, Ellen DeGeneres, and Ian McKellen.

 

            An example of a non-fiction book is Outspoken: Role Models from the Lesbian and Gay Community by Thomas Michael Ford.  Ford states in the jacket of his book,

“Young people need role models, perhaps none more than gay and lesbian youths, who too often feel inferior and alone because they hear only negative things about homosexuality.  They must be shown that there are people like themselves who have happy, healthy, and productive lives…” (Ford jacket)

 

 

            Ford is able to accomplish this need for role models through the format of his book. This book is composed mostly of interviews.  Ford first describes who the person he is interviewing will be and then asks the person various questions about living as a lesbian or gay, focusing on their lives, careers, coming out, and leading fulfilling lives inside and outside of the gay community. (Ford jacket)  He interviews a cartoonist, an Olympic boxer from Canada, a writer, an actor, a doctor, a mother and writer, a female rabbi, an educator, a business executive, and a police officer, establishing role models for children and young adults throughout the gay and lesbian community.  At the end of every interview, he asks the person for suggested resources to put in his book.  Each section has a gray area with organizations, books, websites, and other things that would be helpful to the homosexual child or young adult who is looking for acceptance within his/her own community.  This set-up also provides a list of individuals and organizations in the world fighting for gay rights, showing heterosexuals that being gay is just another form of diversity.

 

In one interview, Ford talks to Canadian boxer Mark Leduc.  Leduc is famous for his silver medal as part of the Canadian boxing team in the 1986 Olympic games. Establishing that he wishes people such as Leduc would have been more open during his childhood, Ford goes on to interview this athlete, noting that he is part of a sport that is known for its masculinity and sometimes for its homophobia.  Leduc answers the questions he is given by Ford candidly and establishes himself as an athlete first before anything else. Although Leduc says he faced hardships from managers, promoters, and other boxers, he says that he made it through and never made a secret out of who he was.  He goes on to say that his teammates on the Canadian Boxing Team never gave him trouble for his lifestyle and that both his countrymen and athletes from other countries have supported him as an athlete. (Ford 39-44)

 

In another chapter, Ford interviews Rabbi Lisa Edwards, the rabbi of Temple Beth Chayim Chadashim in Los Angeles, the oldest gay, lesbian, and bisexual synagogue in the world. (Ford 144)  In her interview, she discusses what it was like to be one of the first openly lesbian rabbis, the hardships she went through to get into rabbinical school, and the happiness she feels at having an openly gay congregation in her synagogue.  She also talks about how her parents were mostly supportive and dealing with many people she knew dying from AIDS. (Ford 143-164)

 

Each chapter of this book is also titled as a question that some young adults may ask themselves about being gay, such as “Lesbian and Gay Fast Fact #1: What Does It Mean to Be Lesbian or Gay?” or “Lesbian and Gay Fast Fact #6: Don’t All Lesbians Look Like Truck Drivers, and Don’t All Gay Men Like Ballet.” In each chapter, he answers these questions and then relies on the interviews with the well-known figures to illustrate that being gay is not as bad as society would like many to think.

 

            Overall, non-fiction books such as Outspoken: Role Models From the Lesbian and Gay Community provide role models to children and young adults who may be searching for some.  They are positive in that they show individuals from the GBLT community as regular people leading regular or not-so-regular lives.  Although there are some hardships that people such as Mark Leduc and Rabbi Lisa Edwards have to endure, the benefits far outweigh the hardships.

 

Conclusions:

            Although homosexual men and women have endured many hard times throughout the history of the United States, slowly this lifestyle and way of loving is being accepted into the larger community. Though discrimination still exists through anti-gay and homophobic groups and individuals and through poor images of being gay and growing up in same sex families portrayed in the media, the subjects of being gay and same sex parenting in children’s and young adult books are starting to become more commonplace.  Picture books reveal the subject of same sex parenting in a positive and sometimes subtle light, showing two mommies or two daddies as being no different than having one mommy and one daddy.  In young adult novels, authors address not only acceptance of homosexuality, but realistically they also reveal some of the hardships that gay and lesbian individuals must face on a daily basis.  In fictional anthologies, young adults are able to read about various problems that arise from being gay or knowing someone who is gay, thereby being able to identify with a situation or a person, even though it or them are fictional.  Lastly, non-fictional books provide positive role models for children and young adults that are growing up gay or knowing someone who is gay.

 

            Through these books, homosexuality is talked about just as any lifestyle is, addressing the positive and negative experiences that come with making a life decision.  While many would not choose to live as a gay or lesbian individual, nor to see their friends or family members go through the many trials that arise for people in that lifestyle, children’s and young adult books aid to give a more positive outlook on being gay and/or living with same sex parents. 

 

In the future and with the publishing of more books concerning homosexual relationships and individuals, perhaps the acceptance of this lifestyle will go up even further, allowing same sex couples and gay individuals to live as completely equal and free citizens of the United States of America, raising their children and interacting with others as they see fit. Hopefully the publishing of these books will inspire more children and young adults to come out and be themselves, to not feel as if they are trapped within the closet trying to keep their sexual orientations a secret. (Richardson and Seidman 199) On the same note, perhaps they will encourage adults of all sexual orientation to teach their children to accept all forms of love as legitimate.

 

 

 

 

 

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Did you enjoy reading this essay?  Then feel free to send a message to Tiffany at: david1tj@cmich.edu

 

 

 

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